When I sat down and tried to come up with one specific thing to forgive someone for, I couldn’t do it.
There have been a lot of times in my life I felt I had been “wronged”. If I held onto them, I’d be stark raving looney by now. For the most part, I have dealt with the issue; put it in its own little box on a shelf in that great big imaginary closet we all have where we put things we don’t want to deal with any longer, and moved on. Sometimes far away from said closet.
I feel I have grown from the faults I have encountered. I have changed, mostly for the better, and can honestly say I don’t hold a grudge…OK, not for very long anyway… I pick up the pieces, dust myself off and move along to the next phase/challenge my Goddess has in store for me.